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Some of the prayers are prescribed - that is, if you are following that order of service, that's the prayer you use, word for word. They are written out in full in the prayer book and they are read out, some by the service leader, some by the congregation together. Others are 'intercessions' - prayers prayed on behalf of someone or something else - and these are not prescribed, the prayer leader decides what to say.
In Anglican churches, I've several times heard people complain that their church isn't prayerful enough - maybe they mean that their church doesn't spend a lot of time praying other than the set prayers, or maybe that when people pray non-set prayers, they don't seem very enthusiastic. And that is quite possibly true. Sometimes I think what they really mean is that they don't feel as if they are praying when they say a set prayer, and not a lot of non-set prayers are said in their church.
The danger of using prescribed prayers is that you can be thinking about something completely different when your lips are going through the motions. So, as you are observing, take note of whether you get the sense that the service leader is truly praying, or whether they are just saying what they've been told to say. Then when you are leading a set prayer, work hard at 'being in the moment' (love the jargon) - think about what you are saying, and say it from the heart.
